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International Adoption

Jordan Greenberg
August 29, 2023

Happy Tuesday,

While it’s not always acknowledged as a milestone, I have been anxiously awaiting the day that my daughter crawls for the first time. While I’ve been warned by my friends who have kids that once they crawl, there’s no going back, I was so unbelievably happy watching her move on her own for the first time. I think it’s because while she has hit other developmental milestones, most of them are harder to actually see. Crawling to me is one of the first visible ways to acknowledge that she is becoming a little human.

What were the first milestones that really stood out to you? I’d love to hear! Reply to this email and let me know (or maybe to just tell me that it’s game over with a mobile kid).

Now, let’s get into it!

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One Big Idea

International Adoption: family history vs. DNA and why genetic tests often leave many unanswered questions

International and transracial adoptees face a profound struggle: constructing a sense of identity without a clear understanding of their biological heritage. This struggle extends beyond mere curiosity; it influences their sense of belonging, their medical history, and their understanding of inherited traits. DNA tests, despite their popularity and utility, only offer partial solutions. They can pinpoint geographic ancestry and distant relatives but fall short in painting a complete picture of one's heritage or medical history. This leaves adoptees with a patchwork of information that, while valuable, is far from complete. The challenge is even more pronounced in medical situations where a lack of family history can leave adoptees and their healthcare providers in the dark about potential inherited conditions.

To address this, a more holistic approach is needed. This could involve a combination of genetic testing, specialized medical screenings for common inherited conditions, and support from mental health professionals skilled in helping individuals navigate the complexities of identity. Additionally, creating communities and support networks of fellow adoptees can provide a sense of belonging and shared experience that is invaluable in processing these challenges.